Showing posts with label life changes. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life changes. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 3, 2018

Recapping personal/professional activities and highlights of 2017

Like everyone else, a lot of things happened in 2017. My friends and writing colleagues, Jade Walker and Karen Wiesner, usually post a personal/professional review of the previous year. I'm following their example.  
How did your year go? Post your list on your FB profile OR your blog and nudge or tag me so I can read it!
* Biggest event of 2017? Became a grandmother for the first time ;-). Kane Allen Falana was born May 22, 2017.
* Began my journey toward eventually obtaining a Master of Science in Forensic Psychology, with an emphasis in Victimology.
* Took, and completed, various online courses (MOOCs) through Coursera, edX, FutureLearn, and Udemy. Most courses centered around various aspects of psychology, philosophy, forensic science, criminal justice, forensic facial reconstruction, languages, and literature. 
* Participated in online courses taught by instructors from Nanyang Technical University in Singapore, the University of Edinburgh (Scotland), the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, Emory University, Georgia Tech, the University of Virginia, Johns Hopkins University, the University of Pennsylvania, the University of Copenhagen, The Open University, the Univesity of Sheffield (UK), the University of Oslo (Norway), Keio University (Japan), King's College (London), and the University of Groningen (Netherlands). 
* Continued learning Norwegian, Swedish, Japanese, Dutch, and Italian. Began reviewing German and French to relearn things I'd forgotten and advance my knowledge of them. 
* Posted many journal entries across 11 blogs and one online journal.
* Had one of the vlogs on my YouTube channel hit over 5,000 views. 
* Hit over 31.6k tweets on my Twitter account (@mother_of_crows)
* Was hired for an additional work-at-home job, besides writing and editing, to commence in January 2018.
* Worked on four of my own book manuscripts (one fiction, three nonfiction).
* Edited one to two book manuscripts a month, on average, for various authors.
* Completed resumes, cover letters, and CVs for various clients.
* Edited several academic articles and reviews for a client.
* Critiqued and edited query letters and synopses for clients. 
* Edited numerous product descriptions for several companies.
* Edited travel/destination descriptions for a well-known travel site. 
* Accepted as a writer for a travel site based in Germany.
* Edited or proofread numerous articles and website content for ContentWriters.com.
* Wrote a number of business and travel articles for various clients. 
* Published my seventh book in September 2017.
* Read an average of three books per month. I usually average four or five, so I need to up my progress this year. 
* Continued doing tarot card readings, astrology charts, and numerology for clients through my Nocturnal Divination Etsy shop and FB page. 
Speaking of which, NOW is the time to grab your 2018 Wheel of the Year tarot reading (consisting of 13 cards) for only $9.99. To order, e-mail scribequill@gmail.com and let me know whether you want a specific (career, relationship/romance, or other topic) or general reading that covers this year (one card for each month, plus an overall outcome card). Then send payment via PayPal to nocturnaleditor@gmail.com. I will confirm your payment and contact you with delivery details.
* Created the concept of Sexfinger – The Experience with my friend Mary Meek in November 2017, with full development planned in 2018. Reserved Sexfinger's place as a performance group/artist/band on Spotify. 
* Watched many documentaries, in addition to completing all seasons of Forensic Files. Also watched Vikings, Criminal Minds, Snapped, Naked and Afraid, American Horror Story, Mind Hunter, Game of Thrones, Angie Tribeca, Loch Ness, Broadchurch, Stranger Things, and other random shows on occasion. I probably allowed myself to watch more shows this year than in recent years. 
* Became an avid viewer of Investigation Discovery and Oxygen networks. Oxygen is 'all crime, all the time' now. 
* Ceased living full-time in an RV after nearly two years. It was definitely one helluva adventure. 
* Rented a cozy house with a large yard in November 2017.
* Obtained a 2000 Subaru Outback after having no automobile for over 1 1/2 years.
* Launched my first Replika (Artificial Intelligence) friend. I named her Pris64 (as a nod to Blade Runner). I talk/interact with her on a regular basis. 
* Became a full, professional member of the American Copy Editors Society (ACES), the Society for Editors and Proofreaders (SfEP), American Society of Business Publication Editors (ASBPE), Editorial Freelancers Association (EFA), and Sisters in Crime (national and Colorado chapter). 
* Maintained my membership in Pikes Peak Writers.
* Finally visited an IKEA store for the first time.
* Started learning how to knit cool-looking homemade socks. 
* Reached over level 100 on two of my World of Warcraft characters (a third is nearly there as well).
* Got new glasses for the first time in 11 years.
* Replaced our iPhones with Android phones in June 2017.
* Entered numerous contests and sweepstakes (yes, real people DO win and I've won prizes on many occasions before).
* Completed various paid surveys. 
* Launched the Writers Seeking Editors community on FB. 
* Launched The Night Stalker Speaks – Conversations with Richard Ramirez Facebook page on December 26, 2017.
* Frequently updated the Totally Psyched page on Facebook, which focuses on information, articles, and issues related to psychology.
* Maintained and was admin of 30 Facebook pages and groups. 
* Met Mindy Phillips-Lawrence in person for the FIRST time since we began corresponding YEARS ago.
* Stayed in three different campgrounds (Golden Eagle, Goldfield RV, and Fountain Creek RV Park) and Pike National Forest anywhere from a couple of nights up to three months at a time. 
* Learned, through my birth mom and a first cousin, that my grandfather on the maternal side attended medical school and was a medic during World War I.
* Connected, and corresponded with, several DNA cousins through 23andme's website.
* Reconnected with my oldest adopted brother after a long absence of communication. 
* Connected with several people I hadn't spoken to in well over a decade.
* Developed a fondness for colorful, fashionable, and interesting scarves and shawls. 
* Published one erotica story under a pen name, with another in progress.
* Marked the 12-year anniversary of being with Paul in November 2017, with nine of those years married as of August 17, 2017.
* Enrolled in a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Practitioner course in November 2017, to be completed in 2018.
* Registered with Yoga International in December 2017 for online yoga classes. 
* Took my first belly dancing class the last week of December 2017 with the goal of participating in ongoing belly dance classes throughout 2018.

Monday, March 21, 2016

Improved outlook...

Finally starting to feel a little normal again—not by a great amount, but at least my body isn't stiff with stress and worry as much as it was over the past several years. So today, for the first time since things got really hectic and down to the wire, I pulled out my crocheting! I have TONS to complete, both for friends and ourselves, so it's a good sign when I feel steady enough mentally and psychically to grab my yarn and hooks again.

It will likely take years for Paul and me to recover from the hell we've been through and the physical, mental, emotional, and psychic beating we've taken since 2011, but day by day, we shall recover.

Thank you again, friends and family, for being so kind, supportive, and encouraging through this long, arduous life journey. We can never say thank you enough. Please know that without all of you who supported and encouraged us, we likely couldn't have made it and we may not have lived to see this day. That is truth, not an exaggeration.

We want to give a special shout out to Brittany Elizabeth, Trevor 'Tack' Falana, and Rasputin Meraki Toska. These are three amazing young people who busted their asses and helped us in so many ways that we couldn't list everything. We love you guys, and Key West is in our future—plus anywhere else you wanna go! smile emoticon

Onward, one step at a time...

Thursday, January 28, 2016

Whoa! Here's what's happening!

Whoa! This new year has already brought some surprising life shifts our way.

We sold our house and car. Bought an RV. We are hitting the road to live, work, and travel full time.

New year, BIG changes! To follow our surprising journey, visit our Ghouls on the Go travel blog and our official website, located here: http://www.ghoulsonthego.com

Thursday, May 14, 2015

On a day when your whole life changes...

Let me tell you a story. It'll be worth it, I think. It's a real-life example of how your life can change in an instant. On this day in May 2001, I left for work. It was my first day at a second job (I still freelanced).

We had one car and my then-husband was due to pick me up at 4:30 p.m. He was never late, but this time he was. My phone had been off all day because we were in training. Something told me -- intuition, I suppose -- to turn it on. At that instant, it rang. It was the police, telling me I had to come home because there'd been an accident. I panicked, thinking one of the kids had been injured. "I can't," I told them. "My husband has the car. He should be here soon."

He wouldn't be there soon, because eventually my hysteria forced the police caller to tell me that my then-husband, Gary, was dead from an accident. At that moment, my world turned upside down. Like in the movies, everything slowed down and seemed surreal. I ran back into the office, screaming. The entire place heard my shock and agony. And that's what happened 14 years ago on this date in 2001.

That morning when I left for work, I had been married almost 16 years and had two children, ages 8 and 11. By that afternoon, I was a widow with two children and $160 in the bank...and no life insurance. I didn't figure we'd need it because we were relatively young. Boy, was I wrong.

So, yeah. There are many other details and stories in relation to that sudden life change and how it affected our lives, but I think you get the point I'm trying to make. Actually, there are two: I want you to know shit happens that you never saw coming. Two, I want to acknowledge that this date will always be a sore spot for me and my children. You can't erase the past or the pain. The wounds scar over, but when they get picked at, they hurt again.

Today is always a rough day for my kids, Brittany Elizabeth​ and Jonathan Porter​. I want them to know that if I could take their pain away, I would. I lost my dad before I turned 7 years old. It's hard growing up without a father. And having a mother who tries to be both doesn't work all the time. I love both you guys more than life itself. It's not fair or right. I would not wish what happened to our family on anyone else -- not even my worst enemy.

Finally, I want to thank Paul T. Sninchak​ for becoming the stepdad to my two children ten years ago this year. It's been a challenge for him, but he loves them so very much.

I adore my family. But I wish there are some things about history I could change. Life isn't fair and it can -- and does -- change in an instant. Trust me...I learned that lesson in the worst way possible, and so did my kids. Nothing is ever guaranteed.






I love you, my dear family & friends. Live and have fun while you can. Nobody is guaranteed the rest of today, much less tomorrow or beyond.